Driving in Mexico 2––Don’t Drive While Married – John Scherber: An American Voice in Mexico

Driving in Mexico 2 is a welcome sequel to last week’s witty, humorous story about driving in Mexico.  You haven’t driven until you’ve driven in Mexico! 

In my previous post (DRIVING IN MEXICO––NO COUNTRY FOR NEW CARS) I established that contrary to the superficial impression of many, Méxican traffic operates by rational and coherent guidelines that are easily understood. Commonly referred to as “free style” driving, these rules differ somewhat from those in the U.S. and Canada, much like dressage differs from cow sorting in horsemanship. Some readers have requested more detail on this concept.

A proper understanding of road signage in México is an excellent place to begin. Here we instantly encounter some cultural differences that require a closer look. The first point of difference is that of etiquette. Displaying directional signs at the side of the road is considered by many highway planners to insult the intelligence of the driver, even when he doesn’t have the slightest clue where he’s going. Second, the México Department of Transportation has as its motto, If You Don’t Already Know How To Get There, You Have No Damn Business Trying to Go.

This is clear enough, and it encourages a healthy, independent–minded outlook on the part of the driver. No nanny state here, this is a country of hardy survivors who expect no help and are therefore never disappointed.

Third, and possibly foremost, you will encounter the language problem. For example: you see a road sign that advises, No Maneje Cansado. Evite Accidentes. No problem, since you recall from high school Spanish 31 years ago that cansado means married. But wait, there is the idiom to consider. This obviously doesn’t literally mean Don’t Drive While Married. Avoid Accidents. You think for a moment: aha! Unmarried equals single, so it must translate as Form Single Lane! This is not going to be as hard as it looks.

Unfortunately, you have mistaken cansado for casado, and the first line of the sign means Don’t Drive While Tired.

Perhaps driving in a single lane has something to do with animals you might encounter on the highway. You see them first as a herd of longhorn cattle at the edge of the blacktop two hundred feet down the road. Prudently, you slow down a bit. But why is the cowherd sitting on a rock on your immediate right, grilling nopales (cactus paddles), not even glancing in the direction of his herd? Fortunately they are showing no inclination to move onto the pavement, where there are only paper-thin sheets of road kill to eat anyway.

You are slowly easing abreast of them, when the possibility that something edible is clinging to the surface of a three-month-old maroon BMW is too much for them to ignore. Is it only the alpine meadow smell of Bavaria? Soon you are surrounded with creatures that have very big wet lips and dangling tongues that could remove the seal coat from your finish with a single exploratory lick. These are tongues that could sweep the spines from cactus without a second thought.

Your hand leaps to close your window, but it’s too late. As they press their face to yours and rest their horns on the sunroof, it must have been the fertile overtones of their breath that made you lean on the horn. As they scatter, your foot finds the gas pedal and spins you onto the opposite shoulder, narrowly missing a pair of overripe hindquarters about to add another element to this complex mix. As you streak up the highway, the tachometer seems to be measuring the rhythm of your heart.

Of course, on the other end of the spectrum, México is the home of the $80 car. But having a modest purchase price is no excuse for having a modest sound system. It is not uncommon to find yourself at the wheel of your immaculate 5-series BMW behind a 30-year-old rust bucket that spent the most productive years of its life sliding sideways through the winters of Escanaba, Michigan. Vibrating even the pavement beneath your tires, the car’s throbbing subwoofer feels as if it’s also dissolving the nuclei right out of your brain cells.

Naturally, this was never the intent. You must not think of approaching the driver to complain, because his hearing was gone within hours of installing this system. Furthermore, the secondary purpose of it is to gradually work loose the accumulated rust from within his wheel wells. This accounts for the crunching sound under your crisp new Michelins as you follow him through traffic.

Roadside chats among friends who pull over when they meet behind the wheel are unknown in México. All chats take place proudly in the middle of the street, especially when there is an opportunity to block both lanes. This is regarded as an occasion to demonstrate your social skills, your connectedness in the community, and your personal clout. For many, it’s a substitute for LinkedIn and Facebook. In this context, mere Tweets are unheard of. In México you cannot even say hello in as few as 140 characters.

This country is the land of small-scale entrepreneurs running companies without capital. Road services constitute a major example. Suppose you have come to a halt in the supermarket parking lot. Naturally you’ve angled the BMW across two spaces to protect it from dings. This brings a few dirty looks, but only from other gringos. The Méxicans correctly understand this to be free style parking, a logical variant of free style driving.

Immediately a young man rushes up with two buckets of fluid, offering to wash your car. A damp rag hangs over his shoulder. A word of caution is in order. This is his total water supply for the day. It is late afternoon and neither of the buckets looks especially inviting. The more opaque of the two contains not only a murky solution of road grime and aggregated diesel exhaust, but a volume of dissolved bird droppings equivalent to what you could extract from the bottom of a hundred Costa Rican parrot cages.

The bucket of “clean” water for rinsing is sufficiently polluted to deposit a milky glaze on your car that as it dries would bake like nacre in the sun. You are not remotely tempted, since you had never considered an opalescent finish for this car to begin with.

You graciously decline the boy’s offer and slip him fifty pesos to guard the car while you’re inside. It’s worth it: he would’ve washed it for twenty.

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